How to Change Your Name After Marriage (The Checklist)

Changing your name after marriage is a bureaucratic marathon. If you do it in the wrong order, you will be rejected at government offices. Here is the step-by-step legal order of operations.

Step 1: The Marriage Certificate

You can't do anything without your certified marriage certificate. This is not the decorative certificate you signed on the day; it is the official document mailed to you by the state a few weeks later. Order at least 3 certified copies.

Step 2: Social Security Card

You must update your Social Security card first. Mail in the application or visit your local SSA office with your current ID and the certified marriage certificate. It takes about 2 weeks to get your new card.

Step 3: Driver's License & Passport

Once your new Social Security card arrives, take it (along with your marriage certificate and current ID) to the DMV to get a new driver's license. Then, apply for your updated passport.

Step 4: Everything Else

• Bank accounts and credit cards
• Payroll at your job
• Utility bills
• Voter registration
• Airline miles and loyalty programs